Are you the type of a person who cannot accept any kinds of injustice and dishonesty? For example, You will be infuriated when seeing someone weaker being treated poorly by someone else stronger. Or you become anguished after knowing a transaction between a buyer and a seller in the market with the buyer insisting on saying that he has given the money to the seller while in fact he hasn't. This has something to do with your value. And I think, if I am not mistaken, everybody has this value. If you are still a human being and you have clear conscience, you have this value.
But what if you are the type of a person who doesn't react at all to this kind of injustice or dishonesty? You are just acting normal when you meet your married neighbor walking together romantically with a woman that you know she has a husband. You just greet him like nothing wrong happens. There are some possible reasons why you are acting normal; not shocked. One reason is perhaps you are very excellent at managing your emotion. You can hide your feeling shocked. It is acceptable. Some people are expertise in controlling their non verbal communication. Another reason is maybe you don't care about others' personal life. You are the type of a person who has "mind your own business" mantra each time you see some personal wrongdoings.
It will be so much different if the reason is your being permissive to injustice and dishonesty. I am positively sure that it is very easy for you to do something unjust and to talk about something dishonest to others. It's also easy for you to 'protect' somebody who has stolen money from somebody else. This being permissive of you can indicate that you want to look nice and 'kind' to the person you want to protect.
Well, let's not think about what others think about you; let's just think about your own value.
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